How to handle jealousy in a threesome relationship

Times have changed, so does the mindset of people when it comes to love making, which was considered as a taboo in the past years, however, today, become a common topic that you can share with your friends in the streets freely. Having a threesome dating is one of the most popular way for the open minded avant-garde to try out new experiences. As exciting threesome is, it might bring you a lot of problems too. Among which, jealousy is the most common and complicated one to deal with. In order to solve the problems for the swingers who live a swingers lifestyle, the threesome online dating apps have invited Jean Pierre, the most popular relationship counselor, who has more than ten years of experience being a relationship counselor for couples who are into kinkd dating, polyamorous dating as well as kinky dating, to share his opinions and advice about jealousy issues in a three way relationship.

Why jealousy will take place? Why people will feel jealous in a relationship? Obviously we all know that jealousy is a common feeling that every normal human being is capable of feeling it. However, when it comes to the reasons, few people, no matter they are couples seeking women or women seeking couple, can hardly tell exactly. There are two main reasons. First of all, it is only the mainstream opinions that are imposed on you. People think a normal relationship should be between two people, in other words, only exclusive relationship should be considered as a good one. But what if you change your perspective for once? Why would people cheat? Does that mean that the cheater falls out from love? Not necessarily. Because it is an undeniable fact that everyone is capable of love more than one person at the same time.

If you are willing to accept or even embrace the fact, maybe it is not so easy for you to feel jealous. The second most common scenario is that the threesome take place before a proper communication is conducted. If you are in an exclusive relationship and decided to try out having a threesome with your partner, you need to figure out what you want exactly. Rushing into the bedroom without even sitting down and communicating with your partner can easily lead to a disaster. If you want to have a three way relationship which requires emotional investment, tell your partner and reach a consensus first before making your fantasy come true. If you are looking for nothing but a new physical experience, find a like minded three way partner who wants no strings attached will easily solve the problem too.

What to do after one party in the relationship already feels jealous? It can be a bit tricky but following the advice bellow can greatly increase the chance for you to solve the problem. Setting some ground rules such as it is not allowed for two parties in the triangle relationship to go on dates privately will help you immensely.